I decided to go to grad school in January and started in August, so I didn't have much time to save. I expected to get more scholarships in grad school than I did. I had full-tuition scholarships that last half of my undergrad! But in my program the scholarships were need-based and went more to people with families than to single people like me. I worked as much as I could handle during grad school, which helped, but wasn't enough. My parents struck a deal with me that I'd pay for everything myself until I was broke; then they'd help me out. So it happened that way. I made it through 1.5 years of grad school all on my own, but Winter and Spring 2015 I was bone dry broke, and my parents wrote me checks. It was half a gift and half a loan, which I'm going to pay back in 2016. (new goal!)
Man, is it humbling not to be able to provide for yourself! I never want to be in that position again! However, I learned a lot. I learned to patch my jeans instead of buy new ones. I learned to say "I can't" when my friends want to go out to eat. I learned which healthy meals are cheaper than others. And most importantly, I learned how to budget.
I started budgeting early on, when I accomplished this goal the summer before grad school. Back then I used a 3x5 card to physically write down all my expenses and an actual calculator to subtract them from my budget! Ew! Now I use a WAY better system.
Why yes, this IS my current budget--see? I still use it! |
YNAB (You Need A Budget) does math automatically for me, sorts data into nifty graphs, and is on my phone so that I can record purchases immediately. I LOVE it. I'm a total budget convert. It makes me feel empowered.
This goal got me thinking, though, what is the value of a master's degree? So, if you don't mind, I'm going to muse on that for a minute before I donate a dollar to charity.
- Monetarily speaking, my earning power is twice as much as it was before my degree. It also expands my job possibilities from 1 to 4 types of jobs
- My intellectual curiosity was stoked. I LOVE that. I love being intrigued. I love having my mind blown.
- I got to learn from brilliant people. My professors are all masters of their fields. I got to go to academic conferences and meet the people who wrote my textbooks. It was awesome!
- I got to be surrounded by curious, kind, philanthropic, creative people who are accomplishing amazing things. Seriously--rubbing shoulders with the other students in my program was a gift. And I get to have these connections for the rest of my life.
- I proved to myself that I can learn hard things. My sense of self-efficacy is WAY higher. I feel like I can troubleshoot and figure out hard things and teach myself anything.
- I got to get my name out academically. Academia wasn't my focus (but it might be if I decide to be a professor), but I still got my name on some papers. It still tickles me when I get an e-mail from academia.edu that says "Someone searched for you on Google and found your Academia page." (check me out!)
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